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today jan and I was discussing about the relationship issue..

do you realize these days guys usually put their GF number 1 rather than their parents..

which I feel its real bad..y don we advise them not to do tat? coz they blind folded by love so no matter what we have said they'll definitely turned on their deaf ear..am I rite?

they wake up when the time comes..haha

why do we gals need to have a boyfriend? n why to guys need a girlfriend?

gals want a BF to pamper  them n love them..guys need a gf to accompany them? hmm..well it doesn't sound rite..haha..anyhow, i feel being in relationship we should not only care abt our bf/gf..we should care for their family too..these days bf/gf tend to be in their own world and like to ignore their family members like wat jan had told me this afternoon..things going the other way round nowadays..typical chinese would say their married daughter is like the "water being splashed out"..haha..i feel that now their precious son is like the "water splashed out" now..not caring for them anymore..what comes around goes around? it's so true..

besides, at the end of the day, who's the closest to u? answer= ur FAMILY..if he/she dumped u jz like tat who's gonna be by ur side? not the one-and-only u r takin abt anymore? still believing those sentence like

"You are my one and only", " Love you forever" thingy..haha..these sentences not working anyhow..=p

ppl always ask me whether do I believe that the person I'm with now will be my Mr.Right in the future?

the answer is I don't know..coz I for one don't believe in eternity..I feel we should appreciate what we have now so that we don't regret on the future..=)

can we control ourselves either in love or commitment in out relationship?

I don't think so but sometimes I'll try not to commit too much if possible..

committing more in relationship= hurting more when relationship don't work

well i believe in that equation..